Dear Nathan,

You might be astonished by all the things that have happened since you left. Winblows 7 is Microsoft’s newest OS release, and I’m sure you would have more than a few choice words to say about it. Celebrity scandals (what else is new?) have plagued the headlines from Tiger Woods to Congress. Super Mario Bros Wii came out just in time for the holidays, and you’d be pleased to know that the boys are quickly becoming as big of fans as you were back in the day. I got a “nook” electronic reader, to which I think you would give an approving nod. Yes, the world has managed to keep spinning in the year since you left … but I miss you so very much.

Every day I see your inquisitiveness, your smart-aleckness, your tender side and that spark of rebellion in the eyes of those two little boys. They are doing ok, all things considered. Knock on wood, I think we have FINALLY overcome the daytime peeing issue with Ri. It has only happened a time or two in the past few weeks. D. is starting to make a scholastic comeback with the aid of an awesome high school student tutor with whom he really connects.

You would be proud of your sweetheart, too — I sure am! She’s amazing (well, you knew that already). I love her to pieces.

Some days still suck, but we’re getting by and learning as we go. There are days when I need your advice or just want to talk to you. But, I know you know that I love you, and that is enough.