Have you ever tried to fit a role that just wasn’t you? What’s the difference between having aspirations and becoming something you’re not?
A weekend break & giant steps forward!
I would like to have a weekend to recuperate from my weekend, but that’s not gonna happen, so I’m heading to bed in the next hour to get some extra shut-eye before work tomorrow. Four of my kids left for camp on Thursday and will return tomorrow, which meant that my eldest and I had a few days to ourselves! Not to mention, he spent Friday night and tonight at his dad’s house, so I’ve had several waking hours all to myself. I have to admit: it has been eerily quiet at times. But, all in all, it has been nice to get a lot of work accomplished without interference.
I rediscovered the floor in the living room & study (dining room-turned-study), purged & organized bags full of recyclables (ie, school papers that didn’t go in the “keep” folder for the year), trash and claim-it-or-lose it items for the kids to retrieve when they return from camp. It feels good to have a relatively clean house … at least in the common areas. Bedrooms and the garage are still huge undertakings for another day.
My big goal was to finish my final paper for my Health Policy class by Saturday. It was the last project for my last normal class EVER. Technically, it was due today, but I got to a stopping point on Friday night and hit a wall where I simply couldn’t look at the paper any more. I felt like I’d said everything I could think to say, and I just didn’t want to write another word. I remembered that my prof said she would review drafts, so I emailed it to her to solicit her input. She emailed me back on Saturday and offered an A- for the paper, as-is. (I made some dumb mistakes with citations that I should have caught, but she said that overall, it was well written.) With my earlier semester grades being all As, that meant that I would still make an A in the class. The perfectionist nerd in me said to go back and make the necessary edits, but the pooped-out part of me said, “Heck yeah! I’ll take it!!” So, I finished my semester a few days earlier than anticipated … woohoo!!
With that VERY LAST ASSIGNMENT behind me, that means I can now officially begin my dissertation! Several folks have asked how things will progress from here, so in case you’re curious, here’s a tentative run-down:
- My first order of business is finishing Chapters 1-3 (intro, literature review & methodology), one at a time, sending each chapter to my committee chair for approval. I can begin this step right now.
- After Ch. 3, I can defend my dissertation proposal (in essence, the clearly mapped out project that I want to research). This should be mid-fall.
- Once I defend the proposal, then I’m officially ABD (all but dissertation, or “all but done” 🙂 )
- At that point, I move ahead with my research and Chapters 4-5 (results/findings and implications/applications). Hopefully, this will be mostly finished by the holiday break or shortly thereafter, if I’m really disciplined. Because I’m not conducting an extensive human subjects research project, hopefully I can wrap up sooner than later.
- In the spring, if all goes well, then I will go back to Georgia to defend my dissertation (the whole kit & caboodle) in person, in front of my committee and anyone who wishes to attend.
- Once I defend my full dissertation and it is accepted/approved/given a thumbs-up, then I will officially be “Dr.” and finished with school!
- Some people choose not to participate in graduation, but I’ve worked so hard for so long, and the kids have been looking forward to it for years, so I’ll figure out a way to get all of us back to Georgia in early May for graduation. I think it will be special for them to see me be “hooded” with my cap & gown and witness the ceremony. Plus, I want them to meet some of my friends & professors who have heard so much about them for the past 3-4 years!
Clear as mud? I’m so excited to finally be at this phase of my studies! It still feels a bit surreal, but I think after I go to campus next month and visit with my committee and see my cohort peers, then it will sink in that THIS IS HAPPENING. Someone pinch me!
Prayer prompt for Sunday, July 21
Are you satisfied with your place in life? Why not talk to God and ask his input about how you can best serve him today?
Typecasting (Prayer Devotional for the week of July 21, 2013)
I have a couple of friends who are walking, breathing, movie trivia encyclopedias. Either of them could rattle off more facts about any given actor than I have LEGO bricks on my living room floor (and my bare feet can attest to that!). For example, did you know that the same actor who played the evil Lord Voldemort in the Harry Potter saga (Ralph Fiennes) previously played the lead role in the 1996 romantic drama The English Patient? I was stunned to learn that someone who I thought had been typecast as a villain also played a love interest.
Actors are often linked to their roles in various genres, but don’t we also typecast each other in real life? When we meet someone new, the second thing we often ask (after their name) is, “What do you do?” We categorize ourselves by our professions, where we live, our appearance and many other superficial criteria. Some of those traits are flexible, and we can try to alter them if we want to (change jobs, gain/lose weight, dye your hair, relocate, etc.).
What about the traits we can’t change or circumstances outside of our control? What about when it feels like God has typecast you in a particular role, and you want something different? That’s a tough spot to be in, but Romans 9:20-21 (MSG) gives us a blunt answer:
“Who in the world do you think you are to second-guess God? Do you for one moment suppose any of us knows enough to call God into question? Clay doesn’t talk back to the fingers that mold it, saying, ‘Why did you shape me like this?’ Isn’t it obvious that a potter has a perfect right to shape one lump of clay into a vase for holding flowers and another into a pot for cooking beans?”
Although the flower vases receive a lot of worldly attention, many of us are bean pots. We have a purpose and a function in God’s kingdom, and it may not always be glamorous, but it is useful and necessary.
The Casting Manager has written your role exactly as he sees fit, so if you are willing to let him direct you and stop trying to write your own script, then you might just discover that being a bean pot can be more fulfilling and interesting than sitting around as a decorative vase anyway!
Prayer prompt for Saturday, July 20
Mending relationships can seem as tedious as waiting for paint to dry, but what a mess we can make of things when we act rashly.
Prayer prompt for Friday, July 19
How do you respond when someone wrongs you? Retaliation? How might things turn out differently if you tried reconciliation, instead?
Prayer prompt for Thursday, July 18
Our troubles often stem from circumstances out of our control, but we can control our reactions. How can you honor God in that way today?
Prayer prompt for Wednesday, July 17
1 Corinthians 14:33 says that God promotes peace over disorder. In other words, conflicts and confusion are the enemy’s tricks to divide us.
Brazil photos: the finished chapel!
Sorry for the belated post; I know that I promised to add pics, and the week simply got away from me. It’s good to be home, but things have been a mile-a-minute since I walked in the door! 🙂
Here is the standing-room-only crowd at the dedication after we finished the chapel. If you have never experienced a worship service in another language, it is an amazing experience! It made me feel like we got a little glimpse of what heaven must be like!
Here is part of the construction crew, before the dedication service. It was an honor to work with these guys. I learned a lot and appreciated their patience as I tried new things.
The exterior is mostly finished in this photo (taken from the soccer field across the road), but we still needed to varnish the windows and paint the front wall.
Prayer prompt for Tuesday, July 16
Too often, relationships (and entire congregations) fall apart because of a refusal to reconcile. Forgiveness takes action, on our part.
