It helps to put our complaints into perspective. Who is worse off than you in that area of frustration? Pray for them specifically today.
Prayer prompt for Monday, June 23
Yes, it’s Monday again. Find something today to be thankful for. Don’t like your job? Be thankful that you have one!
Prayer prompt for Sunday, June 22
Even if you aren’t a constant complainer, we all have things that we grumble about. Pick one (or two, or twelve) and confess it to God.
Do you want cheese with your whine? (Prayer Devotional for the week of June 22, 2014)
The Bible reminds us (in Matthew 7:5 & Luke 6:42, among others) to look at our own problems before we point out other people’s issues. Today’s topic might step on a few toes, so, let’s do a quick self-inventory. Do any of these statements ring a bell?
- This restaurant is always so slow. What does it take to get decent service around here?
- I don’t know why I bother. It’s not going to make a difference, anyway.
- I hate my job/boss/class/teacher/co-worker/life …
- Ugh, it’s Monday again.
- I’m no good at that/I just can’t do it/I’m the world’s worst …
- Why do bad things always happen to me? I can never catch a break.
If those comments sound familiar, then you are not alone. The Israelites were skilled complainers. In Exodus 15, verse 22 and following, the people of Israel were griping about how bad the water tasted. (Hello, Waco? Sound familiar?) God gave Moses instructions on how to fix it, but that didn’t keep them quiet for very long. In the next chapter, God provided miraculous food (literally, from thin air) for the wandering Israelites to eat, yet they still murmured. In chapter 17, God even made water flow out of a rock!
By the time chapter 20 rolled around, Moses was sick and tired of the complaining. He lost his temper in front of God and all of the Israelites, and instead of speaking God’s instructions to provide miraculous water from another rock, Moses snapped at the people: “Listen, rebels! Do we have to bring water out of this rock for you?” and slammed his staff against the rock. (Notice how he said we and not God.) God still performed a miracle and made the water gush out, but right then and there, Moses lost his opportunity to lead the people of Israel into the promised land.
The constant complaining … and Moses’ poor reaction to it … cost him dearly. Think about your own life for a moment. What tone of voice have your last few conversations taken? What have your last few Facebook posts looked like? What was the last thing you said to your kids? Parents? Spouse? Take an honest look at how much you complain, then commit to praying through the issues this week with us.
Originally posted May 15, 2011
Prayer prompt for Saturday, June 21
Ask God to impress upon your heart if there’s someone you need to forgive and if you need to ask forgiveness from someone. Then, act on it.
Prayer prompt for Friday, June 20
When we refuse to forgive, aren’t we putting ourselves in God’s place? Meditate on that thought today.
Prayer prompt for Thursday, June 19
We can say that we forgive someone, but when we’re faced with a choice to harm or help them, the truth comes out. What will it be?
Packing surprise
I don’t usually wear a lot of jewelry. I have one watch that I received as a parting gift for my tenure as Chair of the Staff Council five years ago, and I wear it almost daily. I have a few of Lisa Leonard’s necklaces and her lovely silver bracelet with discs of each of the boy’s names that I wear often. My jewelry box also contains several pairs of earrings, though I tend to wear the same 3-5 more than any others.
One of my favorites is a pair of oblong silver hoops. The selfie photo doesn’t do them justice, because you can’t really see the etching/texture. Several months ago, I lost one of the hoops. I was disappointed, but I couldn’t bring myself to throw away the match. While I was cleaning out my closet to get the house ready to show, I found the lost hoop! It was a nice surprise during an otherwise arduous chore.
Speaking of cleaning and packing, whew! I haven’t gone to bed before midnight all this week, and I am zonked. The good news is that the house is tidier than it has been since we moved in five years ago, and although it may lack froufrou decor, at least it’s spacious and open for people to walk through without tripping over video game cables, laundry baskets or random things that kids leave out because they apparently lack the eyesight to see things right under their noses.
I’m not one to talk, honestly. Housekeeping has never been my strong suit, and I struggled to keep my small apartment tidy when I was young and single, much less nowadays. It’s a huge challenge for me. My bedroom looked like a unit from Storage Wars, with a bed in the middle and a chair in the corner. It wasn’t as bad as Hoarders, but six years of grad school materials, plus five kids’ pipe cleaner & bead bracelets, lost teeth that the Tooth Fairy stashed in zip baggies, old pictures and handmade keepsakes that I couldn’t throw away in front of them had really piled up over time. It felt so good to throw things away (discretely, in case someone noticed his knotted string bracelet that he made “just for me” in the garbage), box up things that were to keep, and give away bag after bag to Goodwill.
Between the Realtor, friends who came over to help sort & pack, handymen and a housekeeper, we’ve had a lot of people in and out of the house over the past couple of weeks. Bruiser and Sushi aren’t sure what to make of all the changes. They like discovering new boxes to sit in, and they’ve been sniffing around everything like a pair of puppies rather than cats, but mostly they just want to stay out of the way.
Case in point, I found Bruiser hiding in the bathroom when I went home for lunch today. See what I mean about no froufrou decor? I don’t even have a towel hanging on the towel bar. 🙂
Prayer prompt for Wednesday, June 18
Do you hold grudges? Ask the Lord today for a heart like Joseph’s – one that sees beyond the present hurt and recognizes his plan.
Prayer prompt for Tuesday, June 17
Moses prayed for Pharaoh, but it didn’t mean they became BFFs. Forgiveness isn’t the same as friendship. Yet, we still need to forgive.
